How Gestational Surrogacy Works (for Same-Sex Male Couples)

Gestational surrogacy is one of the most common – and most misunderstood – paths to parenthood for same-sex male couples. It’s also one fo the most complex, expensive, and emotionally demanding ways to build a family. This post breaks down how it actually works, step by step. First, What Gestational Surrogacy Is (and Isn’t) Gestational…

Where We’re At Right Now (And What’s Next)

If you’re wondering where things stand right now, the honest answer is: we’re in motion – but not at the part where there’s a big announcement yet. This phase of the journey is quieter than we expected. Less dramatic. More paperwork. More waiting. And more learning than we anticipated. Still, things are moving forward. Where…

Why We’re Doing This the Hard Way

There are easier ways we could have done this. We could have kept everything private.  We could have waited to share until there was “good news”. We could have avoided explaining ourselves – again – to friends, family, and acquaintances who don’t quite know how to talk about two men trying to have a baby.…